Sunday, May 28, 2006


Sometimes, a simple 'no' will suffice. Maybe even a 'thanks, but no thanks'. Or a 'thanks for asking'. An 'appreciate your efforts' is always nice. But, really, there's no need to overreact and start issuing fatwas:

"The High Council of Oulama has issued a fatwa affirming that women are not eligible to lead prayers, and have never been in charge of that mission throughout the history of Morocco ... The fatwa was issued on the request of the Ministry of Habous and Islamic Affairs which demanded a clarification on the position of Islam concerning the issue of women's Imama (leading prayers).

This is is in reaction to a group of Morshidat (female preachers) who recently graduated and about whom there has been much media speculation. It has been suggested that these 50 women might assume more dynamic roles within Islam, something beyond their current mandate of organising discussions, lectures & lessons about "moderate" values (but not on Fridays), and being general resource people on religious issues. The ugly truth of it is that there has been a rumour running amok in Morocco that they might serve as imams in mosques! Imagine: women wishing to serve god & their communities as they wish. Oh the horror! The shame! The sacrilege! Next thing you know, they'll be asking for a paradise replete with 70 of their own perpetually youthful male houris.

Ahhh, but there is a very good reason for not allowing female imams. Like noisome children, women must be seen but not heard:

The council noted that assigning women this role would go against the general rules of prayer, explaining that Islam stipulate that women should perform their prayers silently, while the imam is supposed to pray loudly.

Now, I take umbrage with being told what I can and cannot do. Furthermore, it sets my teeth on edge to be told what to by a man. Needless to say, my teeth grind down to stubs when I am told what to do in the name of an ideology (which includes religion). I would have made a really lousy communist. In fact, I would have been the first to go during Purge #1. So I started wondering what other fatwas might be lurking out there in the dogmatic mists, when I chanced upon Ask-The-Imam, an "Islamic Q & A Online with Mufti Ebrahim Desai". This website is a self-stylized "Online Fatwa Resource", so off I went in pursuit of those nagging questions like,

Q: Is it permissible for a man to look at his wife’s private parts including below the navel and vice versa, during intimacy? I've heard one can become blind.
A: It is permissible but undesirable for the spouses’ to look at each other’s private parts during intimacy.

Q: Is it permissible for a woman to pluck her eyebrows?
A: If the eyebrows have become so dense that it is unseemly for a woman and incites abhorrence in her husband, it is permissible to trim it to a more appropriate and normal size.

Q: Are a husband and a wife allowed to talk during penetration?
A: It is Makrooh (odious) for the wife and husband to engage in any sought (sic) of discussions while having intercourse.

Q: Is it permissible for a woman to work. Not in times of difficulty but to teach a subject in school.
A: Allah ta’ala states, ‘And stay within your homes.’ (Ahzaab 33). Considering the above, if there is no necessity, it will not be permissible.

Q: Are husband and wife allowed to dance with each other alone in their room?
A: Dancing is prohibited.

Q: Is it haraam for women to wear a brassiere?
A: Women may were a brassiere. It is not Haraam. However, when (there) is the presence of any male besides the husband they should ensure that
the shape of their bodies is not exposed.

All answers are written or checked by Mufti Desai with a reminder to each response that Allah Knows Best. This website will provide your family & friends with hours & hours of enjoyment (the category on marriage is especially juicy), not so much for the answers but rather for the questions. It is as if a planet populated with naive and/or indoctrinated individuals, deprived of the faculty to think critically and to act independently were suddenly given an e-mail account & a laptop. Trivial Pursuit will gather dust on your shelves. For me, it was a reminder why I am an atheist.

Addendum: I hope this posting will dispell any rumours of my kidnapping and having been replaced by a kinder, gentler heavily sedated Cat in Rabat ... nor are there pods in the basement!


Blogger ticklethepear said...

I wonder if there's a fatwa on selling sexy undies in the medina...invariably those shops are owned by the most fundamentalist looking guys.

2:12 p.m.  
Blogger Cat in Rabat ( كات في الرباط) said...

I did find a fatwa saying that it's ok for a woman to wear sexy lingerie for her husband ...

Many of those lingerie sellers are downright frightening. The thoughts of them pawing through stacks of panties is enough for me to consider getting neutered.

2:52 p.m.  
Blogger knarf said...

Allah Knows Best?

Does He sit in an armchair wearing a cardigan, smoking a pipe?

BTW, they do mention the eyebrow thing for women. What about men with unsightly unibrows? May we pluck?

I guess I should go to the site to axe, eh?

3:24 p.m.  
Blogger Cat in Rabat ( كات في الرباط) said...

Knarf: I was going to make a Robert Young reference but thought it might be too obstuse for today's young hip readership. Because surely only young hip types read my blog. Now, as for your unibrow:

"If you eyebrows have become so thick that they are about double the thickness of those of a normal person, thus they have become a fault, then there is permissibility for bringing them back to their normal size.

Note: Your eyebrows CANNOT be thinned so much that they become thinner than what is normal.

And Allah Ta'ala Knows Best

Ml. Husain Kadodia
STUDENT: Darul Ifta
CHECKED & APPROVED: Mufti Ebrahim Desai"

You're welcome!

3:32 p.m.  
Blogger knarf said...

Why thank you, C in R, for your ever-so-helpful response.

I measured my eyebrows, plus I checked to see what's "normal", and as it turns out, I'm only about 1.87 times the normal thickness, so I better not piss off He Whose Name May Not Be Mentioned by trimming them. The bonus of not trimming (Allah be praised for this) is that now I don't have to worry about the over-trim, and getting them thinner than normal. Phew!

Besides, the more I thought about it, the more I realized that Allah wouldn't have given me freakishly thick brows that are connected in the middle except for a very good reason. Rather than fret over a bit of hair, I'd be much better off to spend my time meditating and praying to find enlightenment as to WHY He chose to endow me in such handsome fashion.

Thank you for a most enjoyable and informative post today. You've been most helpful...

4:27 p.m.  
Blogger Cat in Rabat ( كات في الرباط) said...

Knarf, add "the godliness of the unibrow" to the list of things that you & Chrisso can discuss over a pint this summer.

5:26 p.m.  
Blogger knarf said...

Make mine a Prop Porter, please!

BTW, what does Allah Ta'ala have to say about beer? More specifically, is there any mention of darker ales?

5:44 p.m.  
Blogger Cat in Rabat ( كات في الرباط) said...

This is all I could find....

Q: Is it allowed to drink bier (sic) without alcohol?

A: Non-alcoholic beer has been proven to have small amounts of alcohol in it. Thus, it is not permissible to consume.

Sorry Knarf, doesn't look good.

6:09 p.m.  
Anonymous chrisso said...

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6:21 p.m.  
Blogger knarf said...

Good thing I'm not Muslim then, eh?

-knarf, who's already shaved his eyebrows in protest

6:22 p.m.  
Anonymous chrisso said...

Knarf and I suffer from a similar "unsightly eyebrow" affliction. Does this mean if we could drink beer we can only drink Unibroue?

6:36 p.m.  
Blogger knarf said...

In ancient times, thick, luxurious eyebrows were thought to make a man look intelligent and wise.

Ah, the good old days - we'd have looked like geniuses!

9:23 p.m.  
Blogger ByronB said...

If Allah knows best, what's this twat doing telling everybody how to behave?
I can't believe this is a wholly serious site - I reckon it's there just to wind up Texan rednecks!

7:56 a.m.  
Blogger Cat in Rabat ( كات في الرباط) said...

I don't know Byron - I think that overall it is serious but there must be a good percentage of crank questions. I may start adding a few myself.

12:26 p.m.  
Blogger ByronB said...

I suspect you have already!

So, the men in your life rate entries in the Urban Dictionary, eh?
There's fame for you!

7:49 p.m.  
Blogger Cat in Rabat ( كات في الرباط) said...

That's HILARIOUS!!! The unibrow men in my life claim that it's a sign of great intelligence. They would.

7:46 p.m.  

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